This time of year there is often a pot of soup or stew simmering on the stove or in the crockpot for our supper-time meal. So many family traditions center around food. Have you noticed? There is some kind of bonding and memory-making that happens when we break bread together.
Our family has a crazy, silly tradition when it comes to Mom’s Pot of Stew. A favorite seasoning in those pots is the bay leaf. I add it to my venison stew, my chicken soup, my pot-o-beans and many other dishes. Years ago one of my children was appalled when they found a leaf floating in his soup: “Ewww! Mom! What is this old leaf doing in my soup?!”
Without missing a beat, Mom says “Oh, boy! You win the prize!” And she runs round the table and plants a big kiss on the top of his head. Mom grins, boy turns red-faced and everyone has a good laugh.
And then, when the stew is served up the next week, another child asks, “Do I get a prize if I get the leaf?” And that’s how the Bay Leaf Tradition got started. A tradition that continues to this day. No matter how old or how big those little children get to be. When the bay leaf makes it’s appearance in someone’s dish, Mom waves her arms in the air like a crazy woman and chases the winner down (sitting on them if she has to) and plants a loving kiss on the top of their head.
But, what about when the church elder and his wife came to dinner and HE found the bay leaf in HIS bowl? This quick-thinking mama deferred the privilege to Mrs. Elder, thank you very much.
Do you have silly meal time traditions that remain alive in your family? I’d love to hear about them!
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What a delightful tradition!
Merry Christmas to you and yours, Linda!
thank you, Cheryl. And Christmas Blessings to you and your family!
Carol Covin says
What a sweet tradition, especially with lots of silly! Our soup was named “hand-me-down soup” by my younger son, who noticed that soup often started with another soup that had been made a few days before and was refreshed with new vegetables and stock and leftover meat.
Thank you Carol! I love the “hand-me-down soup” label – you have a smart boy there! Sounds a lot like meals I serve around here. Those meals are some of our favorites, but nearly impossible to duplicate!
Tim W. says
This is a pretty old post, but wanted to add the tradition I grew up with. I always was told if you found the bay leaf in your plate/bowl, you would be declared the washer of the dishes! Don’t remember if we ever followed that rule, but it was fun to tease the holder of the bay leaf!
anything to make mealtime fun, eh?
Cheryl Gerou says
Silly fun is the best, especially when it is so sweet and loving! Traditions in families draw all of the family together in those very special memories both in the present and in the future when looking back. Thanks for sharing this one!
I agree, Cheryl 🙂 And now, I’m enjoying seeing our grown children creating (and reviving) little traditions with their own families. So much fun to see!
Dee | Grammy's Grid says
Interesting, never heard of it before now.
No wonder you’ve never heard of it, Dee – I think it might be a tradition I made when my kids kept complaining I left the bay leaf in their soup, so I made a game out of it (just to be ornery!)
Dee | Grammy's Grid says
Ah ha, tricky mom 🙂
Michele Morin says
I laughed out loud over this, because I know my own sons would have had the same reaction!
What a fun tradition!
I’m glad to bring a little fun and happiness to your day, Michele 😀
I’m sure you have many fun and silly memories with your boys!
That is such a cute tradition! We always have bay leaves in our soups and stews too but my boys just pick it out.. Pinned.
🙂 I think it was when my boys began making a big deal about finding it in their soup. They accused me of trying to poison them! (and people say girls get dramatic – ha!)
Kathryn Graf says
My mom always said whoever gets the bay leaf gets to kiss the cook. I think she got it from her mom.
I like your mom’s way of thinking!